Today, I am sharing 3 stupid-simple summer sanity savers. These ridiculously simple hacks are helping me muddle through preparing for summer (even though I feel like we barely got the school year started…). I almost didn’t write this post because, as I said, they are stupid-simple, but if they help one homeschool parent, I’ll be thrilled.

When you are finished reading, I’d love for you to share your stupid-simple sanity savers that are helping right now. Let’s share and help each other!

3 Stupid-Simple Summer Sanity Savers for Homeschool Moms

I keep saying, “I can’t wait to read the book we’re currently in!”

The last few months have been surreal to say the least. Do you know that Mo Willems book, We are in a Book!? I keep telling the kids that we are in a book right now. (Funny but also not funny, right?!)

There will be books written about what we are living through right now. We are living through a collective trauma. It’s hugely stressful in a myriad of ways, but I think we will realize exactly how stressful it was when we have the benefit of hindsight.

This is one of the reasons why I switched from this super simple homeschool routine to a mental health to-do list earlier this year. I feel it is of the utmost importance to focus on hearts over heads right now. The current situation is allowing us to teach our children coping skills and how to flex those empathy muscles. I believe these skills are as important as academic skills.

And now I’ve added some summer fun in the form of a Summer Idea List, an alternative to the traditional bucket list because it’s an anything-but-traditional summer!

Read more about summer resources here:

• Summer Idea List & Summer-Themed Book BINGO
• Summer Idea List
• Summer-Themed Book BINGO

I digress…

We need stupid-simple summer sanity savers because of all the everyday life stressors add up

I can tell you what drives me crazy. I can tolerate messes. If you know us in real life, you know my kids love mud and mess and creating. It’s all very messy, but very important business!

But at the end of the day, when I go to curl up with a good book, I want my space to be put back together. Now, that doesn’t mean it needs to be sparkling clean. I can assure you that it is not. You don’t want to give us the white glove test! But, I don’t want to be stepping on wands and Lego and nature finds. 

I just can’t think – or relax- in a super disorganized space. I wish I could turn a blind eye and carry on but it’s not in my nature. And I’ve learned that being with my kids, day in and day out, can be ridiculously messy!

As a homeschool mom, I have realized a few things:

• We have messes in every single room of the house because we are home more and have more free time to create and invent and make messes. At the end of the day, the rooms were looking like the family room post-Christmas. A million and one things out but zero things cleaned up.
• I have never been quite prepared for the amount of laundry and the number of dishes I do. All of a sudden, I’m running the dishwasher daily and the sink is overflowing in a way that it never has before. I’m also finding cups and plates in the backyard, long abandoned.
• I am washing way too much laundry. And where on earth are all of these bath towels are coming from? It’s not like the kids look clean, so why am I washing every towel in the house?

These everyday nuisances are different for all of us. It’s important to identify the everyday nuisances that drive you bonkers and see if there are stupid-simple hacks to save your sanity this summer.

3 Stupid-Simple Summer Sanity Savers for Homeschool Moms

I’m going to share my stupid-simple summer sanity savers in the hope that it helps one homeschool mama out there. When you are finished reading, I’d love for you to share your hacks so that we can all help each other muddle through summer together!

1. Chore Chart

At the beginning of this homeschool year I created a simple chore chart for my children. I am delighted to report that our chore chart has worked for the entire school year!

Here’s how this stupid-simple summer sanity saver works:

It was easy-peasy! I thought of the six most annoying tasks that need to be completed each day (dishes, counters, sweeping, counter clean-up, etc.) and I gave two tasks to each kiddo per day. The days alternate so everyone gets a chance to do each task. 

I printed two copies of the chore chart and laminated them. I placed one copy in our kitchen and one in the kids’ bathroom. (This way, no one can claim they don’t know their chores for a given day!)

Also, each child has a designated laundry day each week. The laundry is in addition to that day’s chores. I serve as Official Laundry Coach should they need assistance for any reason, but they are pretty darn self-sufficient at this point. Summer Cait is thankful for last Fall Planner Cait, that’s for sure!

I’ll admit that earlier this year, we all fell off our game. We slacked on laundry and chores and the result was major stress for all … and a cranky mom! Once I realized we were off our chore chart game, we had a family meeting and promised to stay on top of the chore chart. Life has been much smoother sailing since then!

I talked about this in more detail over on this episode of The Homeschool Sisters Podcast if you’re interested in learning more.

2. Mess kits

I am going to majorly date myself here, but when I was in middle school we had a cooking class. The class would be divided into groups of four students, alphabetically by last name, and you’d work together in a small kitchen. You’d have to collaborate to follow a recipe, set a table, eat the food, and clean up. You’d be graded on your ability to work together and follow directions. 

Well, these are the things I think of in the middle of the night when I should be sleeping. I have these random ideas. Mostly these ideas are just half-asleep junk but sometimes they are GOLD.

This is one of those gold ideas, you guys.

For the past couple of summers, my kids have loved camping in the backyard together. Both boys started Scouts this year and they are obsessed with the outdoors and survivalism.

It occurred to me that I could get them each a camping “mess kit” in a different color and they could use that mess kit for their meals. This is a win-win. They get an addition to their camping equipment and I can help teach life skills plus we will end up with fewer dishes!

Here’s how this stupid-simple summer sanity saver works:

• Each kiddo has a mess kit (a bowl, cup, and plate) in a favorite color. 
• These are to be used for every meal unless it’s Sunday night dinner (because that’s when we get fancy!).
• If weather permits, kids are welcome to eat breakfast and lunch outdoors. They can eat at the table on the patio or in the treehouse or playset. It doesn’t matter! (To help with ease of transport, we are using these cafeteria trays in colors that match the mess kits. I have a pack of cafeteria trays that I’ve used for years. They are PERFECT for art projects and mess-making!)
• All trays and mess kits must be returned to the house and washed when the meal is over. The kids wash these dishes themselves- just like cooking class! I bought a dish rack to make drying easier. BOOM! My dishwasher and sink are breathing huge sighs of relief right now!

This is a stupid-simple hack. My kids are learning to be responsible for the dishes and they are learning how to wash and dry dishes (something kids don’t do a lot of in this dishwasher age). Plus, my sink and dishwasher aren’t overflowing. It seems like such a silly thing, but it’s been a huge stress reducer and they will be able to use these mess kits when camping when in-person Scouts resumes.

3. Towels

The towels were driving me bonkers. We have enough laundry without washing all of the towels in the house. This hack was also stupid-simple. 

Here’s how this stupid-simple summer sanity saver works:

• I hid the towels that used to be on a shelf in our bathroom. Yes, I did. I took them away completely.
• Then, I bought two (affordable) towels in a favorite color. Each kid picked a color and was given two bath towels. One hangs on your door for daily use and the other one is in your closet. On laundry day, you toss the one on the hook in the wash and you use the one in your closet. 

Again, this is stupid-simple but it’s a stress reducer. Each kid has a color so it’s ridiculously simple. And it erases the problem of the mystery towel user. (Because, naturally, when I asked who was using a bajillion towels each week everyone looked dumbfounded.) You have to stick with your color. End of story.

Identify those daily nuisances that are grating at you and try to find a stupid-simple summer sanity saver solution

The hacks I just mentioned seem silly to me. So silly that I almost didn’t write about them. But then I shared the mess kit plus cafeteria tray plus dish rack success with friends and they told me I needed to share it on Instagram. And these friends? They were the ones that told me to buy two bath towels per kid in different colors.

All this to say, no idea is too silly! If you are struggling with an everyday nuisance, ask your friends for hacks. If you stumble upon a stupid-simple solution, share with friends just in case. We need to help each other navigate this surreal time!

More support for homeschool life right now:

• Helpful Resources During this Uncertain Time
• How to Make Space for Mental Health in Your Homeschool
• How to Create a Super Simple Homeschool Routine

Bonus episodes from The Homeschool Sisters Podcast:

• Bonus: Creative Cooking and Meal Planning with Samantha Barnes
• Bonus Episode: Social Distancing
• Coping Right Now, with the Kindred Collective Crew {Episode 93}
• Navigating Anxiety, with Colleen Kessler {Episode 92}
• Taking Care of Ourselves Through a Crisis {Episode 94}
• The Power of Stories in Hard Times {Episode 91}

Now, it’s your turn. Tell me: Do you have a stupid-simple summer sanity saver to share? Share it here!