Life is funny.
If you had told me, even just two years ago, that I’d be homeschooling one child let alone all three, I would have burst out laughing.
We didn’t set out to homeschool.
Homeschooling found us.
Our oldest child floundered in public kindergarten. Within a few short months, our joyful learner’s smile was gone. We scrambled, searching for a way to fix things.
Strike One:
In the end, after some testing and a terrible, horrible, no-good, very bad meeting, we found ourselves homeschooling. We landed here without much warning. At first, we were scared and flying by the seat of our pants, but within one week our little guy was smiling. And that said it all.
We haven’t looked back. Even on our hardest days, there has never been any doubt in our minds that homeschooling our oldest was the right choice.
Strike Two:
In a blink, it was time to think about kindergarten for our daughter.
Despite huge reservations, we registered her for kindergarten. She wanted to go. We gave the public school another chance. After all, we have three very different children and you just never know. What didn’t work for one might work well for the other.
And, for a couple of months, it went well…
I don’t need a third strike.
My youngest will be five in September. I was supposed to register him for kindergarten last week.
I was supposed to fill out the paperwork and get there early and wait in line, making small talk with other parents who can’t believe it’s time for kindergarten.
I didn’t fill out the papers. In fact, I recycled them as soon as they entered my door.
I didn’t wait in line.
I can’t imagine going through all of that again:
The waiting.Â
The hoping it will be different this time.Â
The wondering if they get it.Â
The stalling on the part of the school.Â
I can’t picture myself walking through those doors again.
Life is funny.
Two years ago, I never would have imagined myself on this homeschooling path. And yet, here I sit, almost two years in, and I can’t imagine myself, or our children, anywhere else.
I don’t need a third strike, folks.
I’m out.
Yay for a learning environment that treats our kids as individuals!
I took my son out of school just after he turned five. One incident after another just made me realise it wasn’t right for him. I know we could have made it work, but the cost would have been so high – my son wouldn’t be the confident, funny, unique force of nature that he is now. I’m so glad that my daughter (then 6) chose to join us at home soon after.
Having two kids with OEs at home has its challenges, but at least we also get to enjoy all the freedom that comes with not being bound to a school’s schedule. Six years on I know it was the best decision we ever made.
I can relate so much of what you wrote. There was a small part of me that wanted to fight the school, hardcore, and win. To do it for others. But, like you said, it would come at a cost and I am not willing to sacrifice my children’s education to prove a point.
I know it’s hard. I am glad you made the right decision for your family, Cait.
Thanks!
Congratulations on your decision to homeschool all three children! It’s funny how life plays out. You think you know how it’s going to work and then the universe laughs at you and throws you those curve balls. ?
So true, Erin!!
Ahhhh! I saw this on Facebook and thought — I think I know what she’s going to say … Wahoo! 🙂
And then there were three! <3
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